Thursday, October 7, 2010

Is great not to grow up, but is time to face realities

A moment ago, I saw the picture of Connie, Sara and Nancy they took during their first dance in secondary school, when we were all in Form 1. It doesn't surprise me at all, the thing that touch my heart was the comment.

- Look how big is that smile.
- Yea. million dollars smile.
- Yea. Is great not to grow up.

Yes, I'm totally agree with these guys.
We usually have that smiley face all the time when we were small. If it is not a smile, at least a tear, and is better than nothing.

When we grow up, problems grow up.
No matter what we feed it, it still seems to grow.

I never thought that time passes this fast.
I never thought that everyone have changed a lot, or maybe we shall say it is growth?
I'm a big big girl, but no longer in a small small world.
And so do you, i mean everyone who read this.
We are no longer kids, we started to carry on our life on our own, taking our own responsibility, facing our own problem, solve things alone when we have to.
I know we are no more the little one, cry when there is no solution, say hate you when I mean it, say "rocket" when I dont wanna be friend with you, tell you every secret I have.

What I mean is everyone should live their life on their own, decide the path they want, take their risk for any major decision and also be responsible for what they have done.
Of course, what im facing now is masquerades. I bet you have realize that too. I'm not surprise of that, it doesn't matter what brings that on you, but perhaps you are just trying to protect yourself, not to deceive others.
We gossips more than sharing problem. Why is that? I dont know.
Everyone has his or her own problem, maybe is more than you can imagine.
No one can tell you what to do, you are the only one who can tell yourself what to do. No one is obliged to solve every problem in your life, perhaps you know about this, perhaps you appreciate what we have done for you.

P.S : I'm not talking to a specific person. Dont get offended. Thanks.

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